Sunday, August 15, 2021

INTEGRITY: My Thoughts

A bottle of Orijin (PET), a can of Monster Drink, three shots of Bacardi and a thirty-minute drive from Akoka to Egbeda; that’s all it took for me to start this essay. Apart from love letters to my girlfriend, I have not written any essay in over three years, so, I expect to be rusty and this write-up somewhat filled with typos. Lucky me, it is not a formal essay.

As a graduate of English from the prestigious University of Lagos, the onus lies on me to churn out essays devoid of blunders. However, despite the fact that I am aware that I am not a bad writer, this essay is made possible by the ‘German courage’ those shots gave me. 

Enough of the cruise and unnecessary excuse to cover my expected writing rustiness. I am genuinely faced with the pertinent dilemma of what to write about. After moments of biting my fingernails and downing sachets of ‘pure water’, I arrived at writing on the issue of INTEGRITY.

dictionary.cambridge.org defines ‘Integrity as the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles that you refuse to change’. In a bid to make this essay informal, I will steer off dictionary meanings, thus, expatiate on this subject in my own words and as colloquial as possible. To me, integrity is having a track record of loyalty and trust entrenched in a person; it is possessing the quality of being one of the first persons people think of when they need someone to be part of a pivotal part of their life. One of the best investments one can make is investing in people, this also means one of the best things that can happen to a person is having people invest in him. However, for people to invest in you, the value proposition of integrity has to be evident. 

It is expedient I accept the fact that we do not live in a Utopian world, as such living a life of integrity can be a herculean task. Therefore, it is important that we know integrity is not synonymous with being a saint. It is simply being known to be a conformer to a certain school of thought and known to be a ‘person of your word’. In simpler terms, the basis of integrity is being known to being someone who would ensure he sticks to his words and do the needful. 

This essay is not an attempt to portray me as a man of integrity, rather it is the acceptance of my frailty yet continual yearn to stand out as a man who strives to be loyal, trustworthy, and ever-present to the people that matter in my life.

SHOUTOUT TO AN ANGEL

SHOUTOUT TO AN ANGEL

Like a sun glowing and shining
Like a horse galloping and striding
Your love finds its way into my heart
And lays a claim to my heart with a pact

Love some say is blind
But I say it's divined
For some it takes eons to achieve
But your love from afar I perceive

Our love happened in a twinkle
And I promise you it won't dwindle
Tho challenges may surface
The love we share will suffice

I will always have my hands up raised
When there's call for God to be praised
Because he gave me a chance to feel love
Even though I was camped in sin's glove

My love for you knows no bound
And I would always profess it all year round.

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